The more we know about our friends, the stronger the relationship becomes.
They say that friends are the family we choose . And of course this is totally true.
In addition, it is true that over the years they become an important part of our lives, as much or more than any member of our family.
But sometimes we don’t know everything about them. It happens that from casual coexistence we suddenly jump into a close relationship, and they become our closest friends as if by magic. A good way to get to know them thoroughly is by asking us daring questions among friends.
Bold questions to ask your friends
Even if you spend a lot of time together, have fun and support each other, you probably don’t know everything about them. The reality is that we are living day by day and rarely do we stop to get to know each other and get to know each other.
That’s why it’s a good idea to take a day to spend together and ask each other these daring questions for friends to get to know each other better. Surely there will be many surprises, and it will also end up strengthening your bond of friendship.
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1. What is the best childhood memory you have?
Childhood is one of the stages that marks us the most. Surely knowing details of your friends’ childhood will help you understand them and get to know them better.
2. What moment has been the saddest for you?
Difficult situations and how we go through them says a lot about us. We have all had difficult and sad situations. Sharing them with friends helps to strengthen the bond.
3. What are your favorite bands or singers?
Music unites us… or sometimes confronts us. Perhaps you have spent a lot of time with your friend, but you do not know exactly what music and what bands are his favorites.
4. What would be your ideal job?
We all have a dream job in mind. This question undoubtedly allows us to know a lot about the dreams and aspirations of our friends.
5. If money was not a limitation… how would you live?
The ideal kind of life is a projection of our deepest desires. Without a doubt, this question for your friends will be very funny and revealing.
6. What place do you want to know?
Although almost all of us want to travel, not all of us think of the same destinations. Countries, cultures, entire continents… What is it that everyone wants to know?
7. Cold or hot?
The eternal debate about the climate can end in a funny confrontation. There are those who are cold and those who prefer heat, and this question undoubtedly sparks controversy.
8. What is your favorite food?
We all have a favorite dish or a type of gastronomy that we prefer. A question to ask your friends is what food do they like the most or what type of cuisine do they prefer?
9. What is your biggest fear?
Talking about our fears is not always easy. But doing it with friends can ease the anxiety caused by our deepest fears.
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10. If you could turn back time… what stage of your life would you choose?
There are stages in life that are unforgettable. There is no denying it, if we could, we would all choose a place or a time to return to.
11. What was the worst prank you did as a child?
Remembering those funny anecdotes between friends always results in a great laugh. A very good question for your friends, this way you will know how clever they were as children.
12. What are your favorite movies?
Surely your friends have a long list of favorite movies . This question between friends is certainly enough to spend hours chatting.
13. Which character in history do you admire?
We all have a role model to follow, it is good to know what our friends are. The things we admire about others is a reflection of our desires and aspirations.
14. Who do you admire in your family?
It is not the same to admire a famous character as someone from the family. The stories that unite us are closer and more significant. It is always good to know who in our family inspires us.
15. What is your favorite book?
Another way to get to know a person is through their favorite books. Those stories that marked each one and that he can consider among her chosen stories.
16. What would be your ideal partner?
Almost all of us are looking for our better half. We have an image, often idealized, of how it should be.
17. What people have been the most important in your life?
In addition to our parents or direct family, there are many people who have left their mark on us. This is another question to ask your friends, which will surely give a lot of material to cut from.
18. What world situation worries you the most?
Some ecology, others social injustice and some are not at all interested in what happens in the world. But it is a deep topic that you could try to have a relaxed conversation with your best friends.
19. What is your biggest dream?
Talking and sharing our deepest desires is something that strengthens friendship. This question is a good way to get to know your fellow travelers better.
20. What do you like the most about yourself?
We all have and recognize our qualities and virtues . It is good to express them in front of others and openly admit what we like about ourselves.
21. What do you like least about yourself?
The counterpart to the previous question is to talk openly about what we don’t like. Although it can be difficult to admit it openly, these types of questions can cement a friendship.
22. What do you expect from a love relationship?
The truth is that we all have very idealized love relationships. Talking about our concepts of love and relationships is very good for all of us.
23. What is your favorite thing to do on a day off at home?
Not all of us have the same idea about what it means to rest. Some prefer to sleep, others watch series and eat, some think of reading a good book.
24. If you had to leave your house with a small suitcase… what would you take?
This question between friends can make them spend a very good afternoon. Imagining the situation and talking about what is most important to each person can be very entertaining.
25. What is the worst thing that could happen to you in life?
For each one, a tragedy or problems have a different weight. We all think of different things as the worst thing that could happen to us.
26. Of the famous people… who would you like to revive?
We all have idols who unfortunately no longer live. And in many cases we would have liked to meet them or have them still alive.
27. What thing that others love, do you hate?
Some things like food, movies, places, characters are loved by others, but not by us. That is why this question for your relatives is very interesting.
28. What animal would you like to have as a pet if possible?
In addition to dogs and cats, there are other animals that attract us. If possible, perhaps we would have them at home as pets.
29. What action or situation would you never do or experience?
There are situations in which we never want to be involved. From not eating something, visiting somewhere, or experiencing situations that are distressing or sad.
30. What would your ideal house be like?
Some would live on the beach in a small house, others want a mansion. It is a bold and fun question that will make your imagination run wild.
31. Is there a song that makes you cry?
We all have a song that brings tears to our eyes. Although sometimes it is not easy for some to confess it…
32. How many times have you had your heart broken?
A question to intimate and cry between friends. Sometimes it is not easy to remember and share moments like these, but without a doubt they are the ones that strengthen the bonds of friendship.
33. What would be the best gift they could give you?
We all have the dream of the ideal gift, although it does not always arrive. But dreaming doesn’t cost anything, and it’s a question to ask your friends and find out what they want the most.
34. How do you imagine your old age?
Sometimes it is hard to imagine ourselves in that stage of life. There are even people who refuse to reach that age, but it is inevitable, it is best to imagine what we would look like.
35. What do you think others think of you?
We all have an idea about what others think of us. And many times it is wrong, so this question for your friends can be very revealing.
36. Do you have any secrets?
We all have some secret that we find it very difficult to share. Perhaps this moment where you ask your friends daring questions is a good time for them to be revealed.
37. What was your favorite toy when you were a child?
Our childhood memories are always very revealing about who we are. We all had a favorite toy that we surely have not forgotten.
38. How do you imagine the future?
Imagining what could happen in a few years is always a lot of fun. From thinking in a few decades to imagining the world when we no longer live in it.
39. Do you have a place where you go when you feel sad?
Some people have favorite places to go to meditate or recharge with optimism. Perhaps the house of a loved one, or a place that brings us pleasant memories.
40. What do you consider to be the worst betrayal?
We all have a different scale of values, so not all of us believe that the same thing is treason. What is important to you may be inconsequential to someone else.
41. What would you be willing to do for love?
Although imagining and doing are very different, it is an interesting question to ask. This question to ask your friends can reveal to you how devoted they can be for love.
42. What is one thing you would never do for love or for anyone?
We all have a limit: there are things that we would not do for anything or anyone. Having clear limits and being able to talk about them is, without a doubt, very healthy.
43. What situation gives you the greatest joy?
There are always simple things that make us smile and fill us with joy. Although sometimes we don’t think much about them, this question can bring them to light.
44. What is it that you cannot stand in a person?
There are things that we do not tolerate in others. From attitudes or perhaps habits, ways of thinking or reacting, there are aspects that we do not allow people to have while they are close to us.
45. What stage of history would you like to travel to?
If we could do it, we all have a passage in history that we would like to live. This is a question to ask your friends, which is sure to be very fun and stimulating.
46. How do you see yourself in 10 years?
Imagining ourselves 10 years from now reflects our hopes and dreams. Formulating this question is always fun and very thoughtful.
47. If you were a famous person, who would you be?
Imagining yourself in someone else’s skin is always fun. Also, this question for your friends is one of the ones that can help you get to know him the most.
48. Is there a person you regret having met?
Surely, this question will put the conversation very intense. There are people we’d rather never have met, and the story behind that can be revealing.
49. What would you change about yourself or your life?
Although it is best to accept ourselves and accept things as they are, we must admit that this is not always the case. In an act of sincerity, we can admit that there are things or situations that, if we could, we would change.
50. How would you like to be remembered?
Bold questions are ideal to get to know each other thoroughly. Some may be complex, but the answers help us dig deeper into our personalities.
To the classic question “what do you do?” I always answer “basically I am a psychologist”. In fact, my academic training has revolved around the psychology of development, education and community, a field of study influenced my volunteer activities, as well as my first work experiences in personal services.